So, my friends’ father got real sick the other day and they took him to the hospital, in the IC with brain stroke…
although he was kinda sick before, I had a deep feeling that this guy is gonna die..
I love his sons dearly, the 3 of them are very close friends of me and of my family even, I had flashes of heart breaking feeling and sadness of what could they be like if he died.
elbaqaa weldwam lellah, ina lellah wa ena elih rageoon
do you think that this has become common in our society and the losers are the children ?
definitely, it is not a healthy thing to do, it actually effects the children negatively.. they won’t feel safe or loved no matter what they get them to make them loved. They won’t love them truly at least, and this will effect their relationship when they are older.
I honestly don’t know how some parents go with their daily lives without hugging or kissing their children.. I mean, my mom don’t even pet me unless i am sick ! she doesn’t hug or kiss me unless one of us is traveling .
I don’t think I can do this to my kids, hugging them, kissing them, holding them close and even touching their faces.. simple things to show love and care and to keep us close.
I don’t doubt my parents’ love for us, but this just leaves a huuuuge gab between us.